Show any fear… Hesitate for a second… And they will tear you to pieces.
Principles of Improvisation: Doubt Kills
One of the signs of true fearlessness is the lack of fear of being wrong. This isn’t the same thing as denying being wrong. It’s not being afraid of that.
I’m rehearsing a play right now. Some of the cast are amateurs.
Nothing wrong with that, but the behavior is so predictable. When something an amateur performer does isn’t working and the director points this out, they whine. They defend. “Well, here’s this list of reasons why what happened wasn’t my fault and so I really didn’t fail and wasn’t wrong.”
Sound familiar? This is the language of fear.
In all of life we will have moments when we fail. We’ll have done something wrong. We won’t necessarily know at the time. Life is like that director, telling us, after we try something, whether it worked.
We step out. We make a decision. We give something a try. Maybe it works or maybe it doesn’t, but a true leader will always step out free of doubt. Never let them see you sweat. That fearlessness will occasionally lead to screwing something up. Perhaps amazingly badly, if we’re not prepared with the right knowledge.
But it will also lead us toward our dreams. The only other option is to succumb to the fear and doubt. Hesitating with each step. Missing chances. Inspiring distrust within others 
who see that we do not trust ourselves. Why trust a leader who does not know his own mind?
Take the steps confidently, doubt free. If you have to, fake it till you make it.
You’ve been there, right? When have you stepped out and done something confidently, perhaps when others might have been hesitant? How’d it work out?
Talk to you later.
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